|Stress management test|
Stress management test
Think back over the last few weeks or months to a stressful situation in your life – did you move into a new home or have you had to deal with a major change at work? How well you coped with that stress is key to reducing the impact it may have had on your heart health.
It’s important to identify the events in your life that trigger your stress symptoms. Your ability to manage and prevent stress is built on your awareness of your stress symptoms and the events that fuel those symptoms. Think about the coping strategies you used. Were there techniques that could have helped you better manage or eliminate the stressful situation?
Circle True or False when answering the questions below. Then compare your answers to those listed afterward to find out how your coping strategies helped or hindered you in your ability to manage your stress. Remember, this is not a scientific test. It’s a guide you can use to see how your stress management is affecting your life.
Stress management test
During a recent stressful situation…
- I ignored the fact that something was bothering me and tried to carry on as usual. True/False
- I made sure that I had information on how to manage this stressful situation. True/False.
- I tried not to notice that I was experiencing signs of stress such as an increase in heart rate, problems sleeping, muscle tightness or hurried behaviour. True/False
- I used alcohol, smoking, or other substances as a way of relieving my stress. True/False.
- I made a plan and followed it, one step at a time. True/False
- Every so often, I took time to relax and forget about my stress. I read, listened to music, watched a film or rested. True/False
- I looked at the humorous side of the situation, or I gave my support and understanding to people around me who were also under stress. True/False
- I took time to remind myself of the important things in life. I reviewed the goals for my personal life and the priorities of my work. True/False
- I took out my anger and frustration on my friends and family. True/False
- I kept thinking that I was helpless to deal with this situation. True/False
- I didn’t let anyone know what was really bothering me, even though there were people available who would have been supportive or helpful. True/False
- I started a physical activity I love (hiking, playing badminton, dancing) or doing a hobby (woodworking, knitting, crossword puzzles), so that I could enjoy myself for a while. True/False
Check the answers below to see how effectively you coped with the stressful situation in your life. If you answered in the same manner as below, you’re already practicing some effective stress strategies. If not, you may want to review the situations and consider alternative strategies that may help you live a healthier, more enjoyable life.
- F – The first step to managing stress is acknowledging the need for change. Take some quiet time to try to identify the source of your stress. Continuing to deny a stressful situation can have serious, long-term effects on your heart health.
- T – Once you’ve identified what causes stress in your life, it’s important to find information on how to develop new skills or improve already existing ones. A certified professional can help.
- F – A number of problems (an increase in heart rate and blood pressure, muscle tension, poor concentration, irritability and sleep problems) can all be symptoms of excessive stress in your life. Don’t ignore these signs: they’re your body’s way of telling you something is wrong. See your doctor or a certified professional for help.
- F – You may feel that alcohol, smoking or other substances may numb your stress and help you deal with a difficult situation. But any relief is only temporary, and this behaviour can only lead to additional problems for your physical and emotional health.
- T – Setting some priorities and being flexible about things that are not critical can help you adapt to a particularly stressful period. Learn to manage your time and set realistic deadlines. This should be part of your overall stress management plan.
- T – Realize that there are equally rewarding sources of satisfaction available to you. You may want to look for inspiration in art, literature, philosophy, spirituality or religion. Or simply spend time on the activities you enjoy.
- T – Stressful situations often present an opportunity for you to grow in your positive emotions and attitudes. These can include the ability to see the humour in your situation, to trust in your convictions, and to develop more confidence in the people close to you.
- T – Sometimes it may be necessary to re-examine your life goals to see if they still effectively reflect what you want out of your life or career. If they don’t maybe it’s time to re-assess your goals and priorities.
- F – When you’re under pressure or stress, you may be more irritable with the people closest to you. There are more positive ways of letting out the emotional and physical tension contributing to stress. Try to avoid situations that are bound to be stressful, be physically active to reduce tension or temporarily remove yourself from a situation.
- F – At times, stress can lead to feelings of anxiety or helplessness. It’s important to break the cycle of negative thoughts by looking for ways to reduce stress or cushion how much it disrupts your life.
- F – Talking to others can give you a fresh perspective on a stressful situation. Plus, friends and family can provide valuable moral support when you need to feel good about yourself.
- T – Sometimes it’s important to get some emotional distance from your daily hassles. Take on an activity that lets you temporarily forget what’s going on. Enjoy yourself.
Posted: April 2011